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about us
an ordinary season

The story goes like this..

We met each other during our secondary school days.
From there, we become a group of good friends and sisters.
And we named ourselves as "AH MA FAMILY".
This is our very own and unique identity.
We created this blog is to write down our thoughts and feelings for everyone in the family.
Cheers. =)

names
an ordinary miracle

Ah Ma FamiLY mEmbErs

♥ YaN LinG - NYP StudEnt
♥ PEi YaN - SP StudEnt
♥ JasMinE - NP StudEnt
♥ ALinA - NP StudEnt
♥ Zi FanG - NP StudEnt
♥ YvOnnE - NYP StuDent
♥ JiE YinG - RP StudEnt
♥ Kai YeN - SP StudEnt

important dates
an ordinary life

THE MONTH OF JULY - OUR FRIENDSHIP STARTED
05TH APRIL 2008 - OUR VERY FIRST BLOG

♥ YaN LinG - 19th SEPT
♥ PEi YaN - 02nd OCT
♥ JasMinE - 07th AUG
♥ ALinA - 29th DEC
♥ Zi FanG - 05th NOV
♥ YvOnnE - 16th SEPT
♥ JiE YinG - 10th DEC
♥ Kai YeN - 30th NOV

rules
an ordinary rule

Actually not much rules anyway. Just remember to state your name after each entry.
Thanx <3

tagboard
quit being so demure


links
my darlings

aLinA
jAsminE
Jie YinG
pEi yAn
YaN LinG [Ah mA]
YvOnnE

credits
i'd like to thank

Design: parading sentiments .
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Monday, June 9, 2008
10:05 PM
孤掌难鸣

I came across this proverb when i was reading a book which i bought 4 years ago and which i did not seemed to understand what the book is about... Anyway, this is part of the book on the chapter, 孤掌难鸣. The book title is "One Thousand Pieces of Gold" by Adeline Yen Mah.

Anyway, this is the part where her reader wrote to her:

"Remember that no matter how hard you do it, 孤掌难鸣 (clapping with one hand produces no sound). For a relationship to exist between two parties, both have to participate. Many fail to understand this fundamental fact."

Somehow this is what i think we face now. All i can do is to organise gatherings and it is really up to you all to decide if you all want to attend or want to make a point to attend or not. I cannot force anyone... And after organising 3 gatherings, i find that 我已经仁至义尽.

I am glad that many of you make the effort, but some... I don't blame them, they are busy too. But i can see who makes the most effort to bond and who makes the least effort.

The point i am trying to make here at this very moment is, after trying to clap with one hand for long and found out that it is futile, one will eventually stop. Be it that the person is tired or that the person found out that whatever he/she is doing will produce no absolute results, 徒劳无功, the person will stop his/her silly act in the long run...

Something to allow you all to ponder about and think if these makes sense.

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The meow who is finally able to online with the help of wired connection from the modem... You are my god, modem!